French braiding your own hair can feel like trying to pat your head and rub your stomach at the same time—it requires a bit of coordination you might not know you have. But with a little patience and practice, this classic style is absolutely within your reach. A French braid is not only elegant and keeps your hair neatly contained, but it also forms the foundation for so many other beautiful hairstyles. Let’s walk through the steps together.
Getting Your Hair Ready for the Braid
Start with hair that is not freshly washed; second-day hair has a bit more texture and grip, which makes it easier to work with. You will want to brush through it thoroughly to remove any tangles. Having a few small hair elastics and a couple of bobby pins on hand is also a good idea. Some people find it helpful to lightly mist their hair with water or a texturizing spray for extra control.
The Step-by-Step Braiding Process
Begin by gathering a section of hair at the top of your head, splitting it into three equal strands. Cross the right strand over the middle strand, then the left strand over the new middle strand. This is the start of a regular three-strand braid. Now, for the French braid part: before you cross the next strand over, add a small section of hair from that side of your head into it. So, as you go to cross the right strand over, gather a bit of loose hair from the right side and combine it with that strand before crossing it to the middle. Repeat this on the left side.
Continuing the Braid Down Your Head
Keep this pattern going—right strand over middle (with new hair added), left strand over middle (with new hair added). As you work, try to keep your hands close to your head and maintain even tension. The goal is to create a braid that lies flat against your scalp. Continue adding in small, thin sections of hair each time until you have incorporated all of your loose hair.
Finishing Your Beautiful Braid
Once all your hair is gathered into the braid, you will simply continue with a regular three-strand braid down the remaining length. Secure the end firmly with a clear or matching elastic. For a softer, more relaxed look, you can gently pull on the outer loops of the braid to loosen it and make it appear fuller.
Your first attempt might not be perfect, and that is completely okay. The key is to keep trying. With each practice session, the motions will become more familiar and your braid will become smoother and more even. Soon, you will be able to create this timeless style with your eyes closed.